Experience that teaches

It's quite strange isn't it ? Thinking about the past and going back through the same phase you were once, and living it in the same way you lived that moment in your life. It's quite strange that people become sad whenever they recall some harsh and painful part of their journey in life.

But whatever the past be,  the reason and their pain be, the fact is that - nobody have any control over their past; nor do they have any control over the future. Crying over the past again and again for the same instance which happened isn't worth. Sobbing over the past will give you nothing except pain.

Just take an example, if you try to crack the same joke again and again, the intensity of fun in your joke will reduce; and after repeating the same joke, for about 4 to 5 times, a time will come when nobody would even laugh at your joke.

Is it that hard to erase those phase of your life? Is it that hard to move on in life ? The answer lies within yourself. Don't break yourself just for the sake of those harsh memories of your life. It's hard, but also possible. Try to be happy with whatever experience life teaches you, because at the end, it is you who will become much more stronger because of those experiences of your life.